Psycheupp@Work

Psycheupp@Work

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Baiti Jannati


Ini lah kucing kesayangan adik - latelyI got a very bad gastrik - and engine help me to ease the pain - well, now I do believe in pet's therapy - and thanks engine.






Lama juga tak update cerita pasal rumah - nothing special about it, but alhamdulillah.....the house is the symbol of love in our family... so, it must look good, serene dan peace... so mak and abah can be proud of for having us as their children and Engine of course - bring laughter to us - makan bersuap, makan sayur, breakfast roti and telur - ishhhhhhh SPOILT BETUL KUCING DHADA NIH!




Did I tell you guys that nenek fell and hurt herself? It happened a few days after we came back from UK. She was 'playing' hide and seek with the chicken - its not hers - but the neighbours- so happen she fell and 'terhantuk kat tanah - berdarah and she went into the house minta panadol- out of my aunty's suprised, she saw the blood at her anak tudung - apa lagi lah.... mak took her to the clinic and so funny she said to the doctor "tu laaaaaa tak dengar cakap anak...kan dah jatuh" - kekekekek uchu told her not to go out because no one is at home -- hmmmmmmmmm kan dah jatuh!





So, mak and abah took her to our house - ubah angin - she was so excited.. pagi pagi se awal 5am dah siap nak ke KL - kekekekek and the next day, the kozins came over. We had KFC (nek's favourite), and sate - syok makan ramai ramai.



We are free to talk - nothing much of protocols - BEBASSSSS - and you can always be YOURSELF.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

My Collections



These are some of the gifts I got when giving talks, speeches, opening ceremonies for certain occations - well, alhamdulillah..... I have been presenting papers in many organizations - universities - NGOs and I feel much better each time I have given the talks - PUAS - sebab dah sampaikan mesej mesej yang berguna pada para peserta. Make them laugh, smile and alert about life, about self, about others.








I didnt aspect that they will give me all these, but alhamdulillah..... And these collections will be one of the greatest memories in my carrier life... opsss......... dah nak pencen nih.. yahooooo!!

Its Her Time

This week my time was filled by family members - mum, dad, cousins and beloved nenek. I will upload some pic later ok!
Today I just want to share about adik dhada - my hard time has done - at least laa kan... and this is her time. She's completing her research degree pulak...... of which she has sacrifies lots of time doing something else just for the sake of something that may sound 'giler'. Tapi nak buat macam mana kan? kene juga laa dari reverse buat diploma... baik dia buat masters lagi...all in all she has 3 masters degree! giler kan? 2 in psychology, 1 in counseling. And her reseach degree ni(in psychology), just for her self satisfaction - saja saja buat kajian, pastu register for a higher degree, hantar - boleh tak buat gitu? bertahun dah...... harap harap dia dapat complete kan.
Like me, both of us do it with our own money - titik peluh sendiri. Semoga berkat. Ameen.


Tengok tu..... kertas, buku, wallet, kopi....... camera.... semua ada

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

An Evening At Our Mini Garden

Last few days the moon was so bright - we decided to lepak lepak at our mini garden. Adik and I were playing games on pscyhological terms - ala ala TRIVIA.



The game ended at 10.45pm and I WON !!!! YEAHAAAAA........
Cantik laa pulak rumput mutiara ni kan? Macam carpet kan?

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Kata Orang... Jiran adalah Saudara Terdekat...

Last week end, my beloved neighbour - Mr and Mrs Pnut, went to Cameron Highland for a holiday - rupa rupanya depa pi seleberet anibeseri - kekekekkekke - haaa.. tak beri tau ek... kalau tak boleh buat 'garden wedding' sekali lagi kat umah kite....
(shhhh.... actually both of us are bloggers - ada cerita kelakar nih... tak tau rupanya kami ni berjiran...tup tup ..... "aik... rumah ni macam aku kenal..... umah sebelah dia nih.. lagi macam kenal" ----- apa idak nya... umah haku!!!! hahahhahahahhahha)



Mrs Pnut ni, memang suka buat kek - hmmm kami pulak suka makan kek........ dah ditentukan Tuhan kami berjiran... hmmmm Errkkkkkkkk Alhamdulillah......kenyang makan Kek


Oh ya.... ni pun jenis jenis tea yang diberi kepada kami.
Adik memang suka kumpul teh.. dia tak minum teh.. tapi mmg koleksi teh untuk orang datang... bertambah laaa koleksi teh dia.. (time kasih ek Mrs Pnut).
Hmmm bila laaa Adik nak bukak Teh Harrods dia ek??? Beli berkilo! Tak kan buat perhiasan je dik!??



Yummmyaaaaaa



Cantik kan?? Sapa sapa nak tempah kek ni, kontek laa saya... ada charge .001 persen
(boleh tak Mrs Pnut???)


Sunday, June 7, 2009

Bekam

I had a very challenging week due to severe gastric. And some one in the hospital suggested me to do this bekam thing - she looked at me, and reciting some Quranic verses with smiling face - sejuk mata tengok....

According to her this Bekam has been the practised of Prophet (pbuh) and stated in the hadith:

Bahawa tidak aku berlalu (berjalan) di malam Isra’ dangan Malaikat melainkan mereka berkata, “Wahai Muhammad, perintahkan ke atas umat engakau denganberbekam”.

-Daripada Anas bin Malik r.a.

Barangsiapa berbekam maka ke atasnya keberkatan dari Allah dan berbekam jugamenghilangkan kahak, lendir dan lemak. Daripada Nafiq r.a.

So, when I was OK - and manage to walk, my sister and I searching for any Bekam Practitioner -
These are some of the pictures (tak bole bagi banyak... nanti ada yang pengsan!)





Scary kan??? Tapi nak buat macam mana.... tak tahan dah sakit...... so, selain dari pergi hospital dan makan sebakul ubat, den poei laaaa ubat tradisional nih... mahal juga... lagi mahal dari duit bayar hospital!

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Let my fingers do the talking

I was watching a drama last night - Hingga Syurga - of which I RARELY watch drama till it ended but I did it last night - it was a drama about a spoil girl who is obsessed to be a singer - she had to beg to her dad to support her - and as a dad, he would do anything to make his daughter happy - but anak dia ni macam tak kenang budi - the thing that I want to highlight here is how a daughter could badly treated her dad when he has do many things to fulfill her needs - I think deep inside her, she loves her dad - tapi persekitarannya membuatkan si Nia ni tak ready nak accept her dad.

ok - the issue which I saw from this drama was it filled with 'perli memerli' to the entertainment industries - ada selingan tentang Fasha Sandha - BOIKOT issue, guna baru yg sama - different artists - wearing the same dress, issue pasal Nabil Raja Lawak - kene tunjuk baik - maybe about Siti Nurhaliza - potray good personality - hide the real self. Wartawan yang tau artis ni tak baik, tapi ttp tulis yg baik, nasib penyanyi back-up dan macam macam laa... so perhaps this drama really shows what is going on in our entertainment industries.

Ishhhhh...... apa apa lah.........

Kisah Kucing - Engine

Tajuk, Engine - tapi keluar katak!. Ini lah katak yang jadi kawan Engine.

Beria ia Engine main dengan katak dia. ekekkekeke see how he looked at the katak - macam real je kan?Opsss - gatal pulak telinge....
This is the closeup of Engine' Katak.






Thursday, May 21, 2009

Off Topic - Terjumpa pula gambar masa di USA dulu

Ni masa kat Museum Laura Inggals - Little House On The Prairie - pakai baju dia orang..... cess.. macam beruang kekenyangan.


Azura, Che Nor, Adik Dhada - Museum lagi - syok lah! Che Nor - we gonna visit you again!! This time with Mak, Abah, Aida dan Yazed - kan Aida/Yazed???

Studi kat dalam kelas Laura - cekgu dia ialah Che Nor - garang !!!

Tadaa........ gambo dolu dolu.



Chewah...... menghayati sey!


Gadis Interprem

Aida .... 'Gadis Interprem' kekekkekekeke - Aida and Yazed made our journey colorful. Thanks to them. And this made our visit more memorable. I felt so deep in this journey.

This was at Irish Hotel - on the way back from Howth



This was in Paris, on the way to Louve Museum - masa nak jumpa Monalisa - jumpa dulu ex bopren dia kat sini.

This is Aida's Dunnes Store
kekekkekekkeke








Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Bekfast

Salam semua!!!

Ni gambar gambar yang sempat di upload ketika ke Belfast - Giant Causeway

Sempat lagi ke Junction One - Shopping sakan!

Chewah chewah....


Kekekeke comel?

Adik dhada dengan baju PINK (aida..... dah menjangkit laaaa)
Tak sangka sama sekali dapat ke Belfast - Northern Part of Ireland. The city center is combination of Scottish and English with the contemporary structures. Cantik, but sometimes nampak crowded juga. On the way to the Giant Causeway - sceneries were beautiful that anyone cant resist to get their eyes over it. Memang cantik giler! Paling best, time nak balik, singgah di Junction One - apa lagi..... rombongan Che Kiah jadi giler lah!!!! Shop kasut CLARK sampai tak hengat! And my self, got 5 pairs of shoes!!!!!! CLARK okkay!!




Tuesday, May 19, 2009

My brother, friend and student

Hello again,

These are more pictures taken when we were in London - this visit was the warmest visit we had because I met my student - Kim in London - I was touched when he came and 'search' for us in London - hey - London is a big city (not really and not actually can make you lost in London) but he got his way to the Thames River and get to meet all of us!



"Geng Budak Baik" masa di sekolah - kecik je dulu dulu - dan nakal !!! but see what he is now.... a man, a father of three sons!


This picture makes me feel so old ' lah!



BIG BEN !





UK - RETAIL THERAPY kan Mak Engku?

This is the Georgian Door - kekekek cun tak?

Mak Engku selepas shop at Penneys - chewahhhh.. happy nya dia!
Tadaaaa...... happy family!




London - Ireland best place to do Retail Therapy after a long long work! We had this experience few times in UK. The best part is to carry many paper bags (I learnt this from adik dhada - she likes this so much - dont you ever try to assist her with her shopping bags - dia marah! kekeekkekke - sampai tertinggal lah 4 perfumes she bought in Paris!!! Nasib ler dapat claim VAT - tak ler rasa rugi sangat!) And this time, was the merrier because Aida and Yazed came from Dublin to join us.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

London Trip (Part 1)










Hello friends,





Finally, we are back from a long long vacation to Europe - we started our journey from 3 May-13 May to London - Paris - Rome - Vatican - Dublin -Belfast and back to London - Malaysia. Alhamdulillah, everthing went as we planned, except for few things that traveller usually experienced. All together, there were 1300 plus pictures were taken! Quater of it, left in Dublin - tak sempat nak upload kat photobucket - only 200 saja yg sempat -


Got a chance to drive classic taxi in LONDON





Menyaksikan Upacara Pertukaran Shift Kerja - di Burmingham Palace - Macam tak percaya I was there!


Mak Engku and Pak Engku - Idola - Both of them orang yang paling kuat berjalan - and I really mean it - BERJALAN - orang semua dah kerut kerut muka sakit kaki jalan.... dia orang steady je!!

Ni kat Victoria Station London.

There are more pictures in the camera and handphones - will upload more for you all. And thanks to adik who's a great planner for this trip and all other trips. Aida and Yazed, thanks to both of you too! My self - thanks jugak laaaa.... for being a good daughter to Pak Engku and Mak Engku (kekekkekekekekekek - betul nih... dia orang yang cakap!)

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Kekekekekek.... Adik Dhada Punya

Entah macam mana browse pc ni jumpa pulak lukisan adik dhada dulu dulu... hmmmm I think benda ni tahun 1999 atau 2000 kot? Lebih kurang laa... she had the time to belajar melukis. So, these are all hers:


Garangnya mata kucing dia......... tapi kucing macam yang ada kat umah.. nama dia ADEL.
This is cute - macam garfield kan??? Tapi dia tulis Merlin - we had a cat named Merlin - Kucing Pak Engku- When Pak Engku was away for his ovc trip, Merlin tak turun dari para hingga Pak Engku pulang...... cute kan??



This was jotted as 'Anggerik Desa' cheewaahhhh......


Monday, April 27, 2009

Make Over

I was a little bit busy lately but alhamdulillah, things are over now - and I am crossing my fingers to make it happen - its not in my hands now.... but HE will decide...(huh... what am I talking about huh? tak apa laaa.... kalau tak faham buat buat anggukkan kepala je la yea)




Cantik tak??? Susun atur bunga ni hasil dari tangan adik. Hmmm main cucuk je nih, tapi dalam gambar cantik pulak.Sampai pasu Brbie Doll dia pun jadi vase.

OK. This is my work - nak ber konsepkan Country English, kami korbankan almari kayu. Previously our concept was kayu - but now dah tukar taste - di ruang kedua.

Buat sendiri!



Gigih nih...


Tada.................. inilah hasilnya!


Saturday, April 18, 2009

YoU ArE BeAuTiFuL


I never thought that I would achieve what I want - especially something that never can ever come back as the time passes by. But in order to keep myself on the right track, now I learnt to spend some time with someone who appreciates just the way I am.


It's mind boggling to me that so many people outside, who may and may not experience the same situation as I gone though or perhaps they just make such great lengths trying to look like, talk like or act like someone completely different from who they really are. Why? Just to CONFORM with the society, with the people whom they thought belongs to them. But I just need to be comfortable being real around others. BE LIKE WHAT I AM TODAY - Even the society has given some guidelines for men and women, and being or act like one, but it does not make me more beautiful and unique. Thanks to people around me who always sending positive massages that unknowingly it has become the most effective emotional therapeutic moment because those messages allow me to get comfortable having fun again without the pressures to conform.


I wonder if I am being too philosophical lately....(bersabar je la yek.... blog den, sukati den lah ea)

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Maturity



I have been watching news lately especially on the 'peralihan kuasa' and what I could observe is the many of us lack of emotional maturity. Sometimes I wonder if I have to laugh at or just kept it to myself. But emotional maturity is a quality that politicians must possess because by having emotional maturity here means one should be able to accept the reality of life (people and things) as they are without them to be other than that. So, there woudnt be any backfire / attacking others personal issues. Politics remain politics and personal issues will remain as personal issues.

This is supported in the Al Quran when Allah says that once a man has reach his maturity and full grown, Allah will granted him wisdom, knowledge and reward those who do good to others (28:14 “When he reached maturity and strength, we endowed him with wisdom and knowledge. We thus reward the righteous”). By saying this, it is clear that having the emotional maturity also a special gift from Allah and it based on our individual growth, time and experience. From my understanding, as a leader, he/she should have the emotional maturity so he/she will be able to perform his/her duty not only to Allah, but to mankind – in other words, fully functioning in a socio-politic profession.

The emotion maturity provides information that can help us eliminate the mental and emotional drain caused by confusion, stress, overwhelm, anxiety and frustration. Hence, the guiding of our emotion is so critical as the Quran says: (64:11) Nothing happens to you except in accordance with God's will. Anyone who believes in God, He will guide his heart. God is fully aware of all things.
Remember my dear leaders, you are there because of the society and dont forget that your life is part of the society's lifes - THINK BEFORE YOU ACT and SAY! oppss..... by the way, this is not only meant for you... but your family members too! Watch them closely!!