Psycheupp@Work

Psycheupp@Work

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Its PAINFULL....

Alhamdulillah..... I am back on my feet, eventhough am not really 'pulih sepenuhnya'. Was first diagnosed with gastric, then urine infection ...... after few restless nights and japs I cant stand the pain - from clinic to Emergency Department - no one explained what actually happened. Until and finally get ML's assistant - with all the contacts - Pengarah Hospital - baru laaa nak terkejar kejar....... baru laaaa nak buat KUB..... baru laaa nak wat itu nak wat ini!!! Huh...... DUNIA kan?... thanks to ML - thanks so much ya!

Then, I was referred to GH, but Mak and Abah wanted us to go back. They said that we should try an alternative way... bukan nak percaya.... but I know they cared about me... they just want me to be infront of their eyes. Mak already set me at Hospital Abdul Samad, where she did all her treatments, appointment with Dr Nor - our family clinic at Taman Perbadanan Islam, JB.

Sampai sampai JB (Adik drove the red Merc like Formula One!) terus ke rumah Pak Ali - an alternative healer from Madura - suspen juga..... because all nights I was in pain, can I trust this old man - with only mandi air limau can he really cured the pain????

He was furious at first - maklumlah kami sampai lewat ke rumah dia...seems that he refused to help us, but abah talked, mak pun sama.... finally he took the limau (semua bahan2 dah abah sediakan bila kami sampai JB) and asked me to mandi 3 times and come again the next day.

We went back - mandi (the pain started) then, sebelum tidur, mandi lagi - at night I was so so worried if the pain came back (normally at 1.00 am - 3.00 am)... mak and abah, many times 'jengok' me on bed - risau kalau kalau sakit menyerang lagi.. ALHAMDULILLAH... that NIGHT I SLEPT WITHOUT ANY PAIN !!!

Early in the morning, before abah go to Daik (for a ceremony) he took us there -- and Pak Ali started his ritual - he took the limau, belah dua and asked me to baring on a bed - adik dhada was there- adik Ana and Adik Jan menjadi saksi for the following day - what he did was........

Belah limau sunkist kepada dua bahagian



Sapu limau kat belakang, area buah pinggang dan area yang dia tanya sakit.




This is the magic - dia buat cam di bawah nih... terus keluar batu-batu tuh!


Ni la rupa nya batu batu tuh



Sepatutnya 3 kali datang but he has to go back to Madura after 35 years stay in Malaysia... so, the third treatment perhaps in August. But after that, he said better for me to go to the doctor and check again....... just incase lah kan....
So the next day, we went to see pur family doctor and did the scan - suprisingly... the 2 stones dah tak de........ hmmmmmmmm ........ apapun.... janji dah tak sakit!! cuma doktor kata mungkin dah pecah dan boleh keluar ikut saluran air kencing...
Sekarang ni tak laa fit sangat.. perhaps due to the pain killer tuh... but tak lah sakit... alhamdulillah sangat sangat dan syukur pada Allah.
Thanks to mak and abah... adik yang menjaga sepanjang malam... adik ana dan adik jan, yang turut hantar ke sana sini..... and all the family...






Tuesday, June 23, 2009

I am Glad....

In the previous posting, I did mention about my ex-student Ah Kim - and we met in London - we had a great time and he is just like he was in school. And the other week, Ah Haw - another my ex student, came to visit me - both are brilliant and top student in school.

So we talked until 2.00am!!! about what? kekekeke about old old stories - he still remembered the song I taught - Setangkai Kembang Melati... ahhh ahhhh... and sang it sampai habis!!! kekekek so fun!

And bibik prepared for us a simple BBQ - we ate ate ate gelak gelak gelak and talked about life experience that has been a great teacher to us.



This is Ah Haw


Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Baiti Jannati


Ini lah kucing kesayangan adik - latelyI got a very bad gastrik - and engine help me to ease the pain - well, now I do believe in pet's therapy - and thanks engine.






Lama juga tak update cerita pasal rumah - nothing special about it, but alhamdulillah.....the house is the symbol of love in our family... so, it must look good, serene dan peace... so mak and abah can be proud of for having us as their children and Engine of course - bring laughter to us - makan bersuap, makan sayur, breakfast roti and telur - ishhhhhhh SPOILT BETUL KUCING DHADA NIH!




Did I tell you guys that nenek fell and hurt herself? It happened a few days after we came back from UK. She was 'playing' hide and seek with the chicken - its not hers - but the neighbours- so happen she fell and 'terhantuk kat tanah - berdarah and she went into the house minta panadol- out of my aunty's suprised, she saw the blood at her anak tudung - apa lagi lah.... mak took her to the clinic and so funny she said to the doctor "tu laaaaaa tak dengar cakap anak...kan dah jatuh" - kekekekek uchu told her not to go out because no one is at home -- hmmmmmmmmm kan dah jatuh!





So, mak and abah took her to our house - ubah angin - she was so excited.. pagi pagi se awal 5am dah siap nak ke KL - kekekekek and the next day, the kozins came over. We had KFC (nek's favourite), and sate - syok makan ramai ramai.



We are free to talk - nothing much of protocols - BEBASSSSS - and you can always be YOURSELF.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

My Collections



These are some of the gifts I got when giving talks, speeches, opening ceremonies for certain occations - well, alhamdulillah..... I have been presenting papers in many organizations - universities - NGOs and I feel much better each time I have given the talks - PUAS - sebab dah sampaikan mesej mesej yang berguna pada para peserta. Make them laugh, smile and alert about life, about self, about others.








I didnt aspect that they will give me all these, but alhamdulillah..... And these collections will be one of the greatest memories in my carrier life... opsss......... dah nak pencen nih.. yahooooo!!

Its Her Time

This week my time was filled by family members - mum, dad, cousins and beloved nenek. I will upload some pic later ok!
Today I just want to share about adik dhada - my hard time has done - at least laa kan... and this is her time. She's completing her research degree pulak...... of which she has sacrifies lots of time doing something else just for the sake of something that may sound 'giler'. Tapi nak buat macam mana kan? kene juga laa dari reverse buat diploma... baik dia buat masters lagi...all in all she has 3 masters degree! giler kan? 2 in psychology, 1 in counseling. And her reseach degree ni(in psychology), just for her self satisfaction - saja saja buat kajian, pastu register for a higher degree, hantar - boleh tak buat gitu? bertahun dah...... harap harap dia dapat complete kan.
Like me, both of us do it with our own money - titik peluh sendiri. Semoga berkat. Ameen.


Tengok tu..... kertas, buku, wallet, kopi....... camera.... semua ada

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

An Evening At Our Mini Garden

Last few days the moon was so bright - we decided to lepak lepak at our mini garden. Adik and I were playing games on pscyhological terms - ala ala TRIVIA.



The game ended at 10.45pm and I WON !!!! YEAHAAAAA........
Cantik laa pulak rumput mutiara ni kan? Macam carpet kan?

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Kata Orang... Jiran adalah Saudara Terdekat...

Last week end, my beloved neighbour - Mr and Mrs Pnut, went to Cameron Highland for a holiday - rupa rupanya depa pi seleberet anibeseri - kekekekkekke - haaa.. tak beri tau ek... kalau tak boleh buat 'garden wedding' sekali lagi kat umah kite....
(shhhh.... actually both of us are bloggers - ada cerita kelakar nih... tak tau rupanya kami ni berjiran...tup tup ..... "aik... rumah ni macam aku kenal..... umah sebelah dia nih.. lagi macam kenal" ----- apa idak nya... umah haku!!!! hahahhahahahhahha)



Mrs Pnut ni, memang suka buat kek - hmmm kami pulak suka makan kek........ dah ditentukan Tuhan kami berjiran... hmmmm Errkkkkkkkk Alhamdulillah......kenyang makan Kek


Oh ya.... ni pun jenis jenis tea yang diberi kepada kami.
Adik memang suka kumpul teh.. dia tak minum teh.. tapi mmg koleksi teh untuk orang datang... bertambah laaa koleksi teh dia.. (time kasih ek Mrs Pnut).
Hmmm bila laaa Adik nak bukak Teh Harrods dia ek??? Beli berkilo! Tak kan buat perhiasan je dik!??



Yummmyaaaaaa



Cantik kan?? Sapa sapa nak tempah kek ni, kontek laa saya... ada charge .001 persen
(boleh tak Mrs Pnut???)


Sunday, June 7, 2009

Bekam

I had a very challenging week due to severe gastric. And some one in the hospital suggested me to do this bekam thing - she looked at me, and reciting some Quranic verses with smiling face - sejuk mata tengok....

According to her this Bekam has been the practised of Prophet (pbuh) and stated in the hadith:

Bahawa tidak aku berlalu (berjalan) di malam Isra’ dangan Malaikat melainkan mereka berkata, “Wahai Muhammad, perintahkan ke atas umat engakau denganberbekam”.

-Daripada Anas bin Malik r.a.

Barangsiapa berbekam maka ke atasnya keberkatan dari Allah dan berbekam jugamenghilangkan kahak, lendir dan lemak. Daripada Nafiq r.a.

So, when I was OK - and manage to walk, my sister and I searching for any Bekam Practitioner -
These are some of the pictures (tak bole bagi banyak... nanti ada yang pengsan!)





Scary kan??? Tapi nak buat macam mana.... tak tahan dah sakit...... so, selain dari pergi hospital dan makan sebakul ubat, den poei laaaa ubat tradisional nih... mahal juga... lagi mahal dari duit bayar hospital!

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Let my fingers do the talking

I was watching a drama last night - Hingga Syurga - of which I RARELY watch drama till it ended but I did it last night - it was a drama about a spoil girl who is obsessed to be a singer - she had to beg to her dad to support her - and as a dad, he would do anything to make his daughter happy - but anak dia ni macam tak kenang budi - the thing that I want to highlight here is how a daughter could badly treated her dad when he has do many things to fulfill her needs - I think deep inside her, she loves her dad - tapi persekitarannya membuatkan si Nia ni tak ready nak accept her dad.

ok - the issue which I saw from this drama was it filled with 'perli memerli' to the entertainment industries - ada selingan tentang Fasha Sandha - BOIKOT issue, guna baru yg sama - different artists - wearing the same dress, issue pasal Nabil Raja Lawak - kene tunjuk baik - maybe about Siti Nurhaliza - potray good personality - hide the real self. Wartawan yang tau artis ni tak baik, tapi ttp tulis yg baik, nasib penyanyi back-up dan macam macam laa... so perhaps this drama really shows what is going on in our entertainment industries.

Ishhhhh...... apa apa lah.........

Kisah Kucing - Engine

Tajuk, Engine - tapi keluar katak!. Ini lah katak yang jadi kawan Engine.

Beria ia Engine main dengan katak dia. ekekkekeke see how he looked at the katak - macam real je kan?Opsss - gatal pulak telinge....
This is the closeup of Engine' Katak.






Thursday, May 21, 2009

Off Topic - Terjumpa pula gambar masa di USA dulu

Ni masa kat Museum Laura Inggals - Little House On The Prairie - pakai baju dia orang..... cess.. macam beruang kekenyangan.


Azura, Che Nor, Adik Dhada - Museum lagi - syok lah! Che Nor - we gonna visit you again!! This time with Mak, Abah, Aida dan Yazed - kan Aida/Yazed???

Studi kat dalam kelas Laura - cekgu dia ialah Che Nor - garang !!!

Tadaa........ gambo dolu dolu.



Chewah...... menghayati sey!


Gadis Interprem

Aida .... 'Gadis Interprem' kekekkekekeke - Aida and Yazed made our journey colorful. Thanks to them. And this made our visit more memorable. I felt so deep in this journey.

This was at Irish Hotel - on the way back from Howth



This was in Paris, on the way to Louve Museum - masa nak jumpa Monalisa - jumpa dulu ex bopren dia kat sini.

This is Aida's Dunnes Store
kekekkekekkeke








Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Bekfast

Salam semua!!!

Ni gambar gambar yang sempat di upload ketika ke Belfast - Giant Causeway

Sempat lagi ke Junction One - Shopping sakan!

Chewah chewah....


Kekekeke comel?

Adik dhada dengan baju PINK (aida..... dah menjangkit laaaa)
Tak sangka sama sekali dapat ke Belfast - Northern Part of Ireland. The city center is combination of Scottish and English with the contemporary structures. Cantik, but sometimes nampak crowded juga. On the way to the Giant Causeway - sceneries were beautiful that anyone cant resist to get their eyes over it. Memang cantik giler! Paling best, time nak balik, singgah di Junction One - apa lagi..... rombongan Che Kiah jadi giler lah!!!! Shop kasut CLARK sampai tak hengat! And my self, got 5 pairs of shoes!!!!!! CLARK okkay!!




Tuesday, May 19, 2009

My brother, friend and student

Hello again,

These are more pictures taken when we were in London - this visit was the warmest visit we had because I met my student - Kim in London - I was touched when he came and 'search' for us in London - hey - London is a big city (not really and not actually can make you lost in London) but he got his way to the Thames River and get to meet all of us!



"Geng Budak Baik" masa di sekolah - kecik je dulu dulu - dan nakal !!! but see what he is now.... a man, a father of three sons!


This picture makes me feel so old ' lah!



BIG BEN !





UK - RETAIL THERAPY kan Mak Engku?

This is the Georgian Door - kekekek cun tak?

Mak Engku selepas shop at Penneys - chewahhhh.. happy nya dia!
Tadaaaa...... happy family!




London - Ireland best place to do Retail Therapy after a long long work! We had this experience few times in UK. The best part is to carry many paper bags (I learnt this from adik dhada - she likes this so much - dont you ever try to assist her with her shopping bags - dia marah! kekeekkekke - sampai tertinggal lah 4 perfumes she bought in Paris!!! Nasib ler dapat claim VAT - tak ler rasa rugi sangat!) And this time, was the merrier because Aida and Yazed came from Dublin to join us.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

London Trip (Part 1)










Hello friends,





Finally, we are back from a long long vacation to Europe - we started our journey from 3 May-13 May to London - Paris - Rome - Vatican - Dublin -Belfast and back to London - Malaysia. Alhamdulillah, everthing went as we planned, except for few things that traveller usually experienced. All together, there were 1300 plus pictures were taken! Quater of it, left in Dublin - tak sempat nak upload kat photobucket - only 200 saja yg sempat -


Got a chance to drive classic taxi in LONDON





Menyaksikan Upacara Pertukaran Shift Kerja - di Burmingham Palace - Macam tak percaya I was there!


Mak Engku and Pak Engku - Idola - Both of them orang yang paling kuat berjalan - and I really mean it - BERJALAN - orang semua dah kerut kerut muka sakit kaki jalan.... dia orang steady je!!

Ni kat Victoria Station London.

There are more pictures in the camera and handphones - will upload more for you all. And thanks to adik who's a great planner for this trip and all other trips. Aida and Yazed, thanks to both of you too! My self - thanks jugak laaaa.... for being a good daughter to Pak Engku and Mak Engku (kekekkekekekekekek - betul nih... dia orang yang cakap!)

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Kekekekekek.... Adik Dhada Punya

Entah macam mana browse pc ni jumpa pulak lukisan adik dhada dulu dulu... hmmmm I think benda ni tahun 1999 atau 2000 kot? Lebih kurang laa... she had the time to belajar melukis. So, these are all hers:


Garangnya mata kucing dia......... tapi kucing macam yang ada kat umah.. nama dia ADEL.
This is cute - macam garfield kan??? Tapi dia tulis Merlin - we had a cat named Merlin - Kucing Pak Engku- When Pak Engku was away for his ovc trip, Merlin tak turun dari para hingga Pak Engku pulang...... cute kan??



This was jotted as 'Anggerik Desa' cheewaahhhh......