Hmmmmm I got this from Che Nor - lovely kozin in Minesota - and I do hope that all of my friends here could pray for her health... so we still can hear her laugh, notty stories and hillarious gossip! (opsss)
Well, we had the article posted in my office - the be specific, right infront of our boss's door. It was like 2 months ago. I dare not to take it out, just afraid if HE is the one who posted the article, until I got it from Che Nor today.
and another email came along with the attachment:
Assalamualaikum wrt wbt
Its hard to explain, and difficult for me to share this article I received from a friend. But, sometimes it does come across in our day to day life - without any 'sabr' we may turn to 'a monster'. Or end up, by doing the task/job ourselves!! And yet, if this keep on going on in our organization, it could be harm to all of us as well as to the organization.
So, let me put it this way.... for those who always dealing with the 'related individuals' stated in the article, please be cool and use ASSERTIVE SKILLS to handle them. Learn how to EXPLAIN and let them know the CONSEQUENCES of their attitudes. Or perhaps, if they do the mistake, correct them IMMEDIATELY. DO NOT DELAY.
And for those who feel that you are the person mentioned in the article, PLEASE BE CAREFUL. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKE and TAKE OWNERSHIP of your job. Built some SENSE OF BELONGING before you keep repeating doing the same mistake. REMEMBER - the definition of insane is "doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result" (Benjamin Franklin) - Thus, DO CHANGE - SO YOU CAN HELP YOURSELF and of course, THOSE WHO WORK WITH YOU TOO.